Just do it, and you’ll both enjoy the date more. Why is this up to you? Because you are better at it than he. If he walks away from the date having shared too much or hasn’t learned about you, then there won't be a second date. Make sure you get to talk about yourself in a meaningful way as well. It’s the thing we have that men want most!īe the master of the segue if he talks too much, or the conversation swerves into uncomfortable topics.
And best flirt of all: compliment him! And bring your femininity to every date. Yes, grown-up women flirt and men like it! Keep your body language open, play with your hair, smile, touch his arm. (Because after all, your type hasn't worked or you would be reading this.) This keeps you open to someone who might not be your type. Start off with the positive and try to stay in discovery mode before you decide he’s not right for you.
His manners, his shirt, his smile, the way he talks about his kids.